I've posted about this in the
past, and try to avoid it now. It really wasted me and didn't actually feel good, so I try to find a balance that
enhances arousal and orgasm for both parties but doesn't drain me of ALL my vital juices! It kind of reminds of
the Samson and Delilah story ... in reverse. After that type of exhausting orgasm I just feel blah, almost like
having a mild flu. This is not an "afterglow" as one person suggested. Afterglow is pleasurable, relaxing,
As far as I can tell, I'd attribute this phenomenon to a cops OD.