I would say one in 5 females and get reactions from males also. Ie chattiness and or aggressiveness. DIHL are quite common women starting conversations less frequent.
As far as alpha male well the responses are very differnent depending on appearence size moreso. But the deferment or submission tends to be from most guys except those that are natural -none producers they get aggressive.
Yes guys not fitting the classic alpha male look can be successful, add some anol for good measure or even -rone to get more submission and to be ignored by the naturally aggressive males (couplins reduce negative -none effects also PCC is good for this as for EW well read those posts i havent used EW yet.)