SoEs a great social product for getting chatty, friendliness etc.
All my DIHLs have been in combination with SoE too. (usually in combination with PI/m, though last weekend it was with an 8 hour old AE application)
I\'d suggest trying it by itself to get a feel for the results.
If your keen maybe the tiniest amount of NPA (little pinky finger tips worth) behind the ears.